Relationship Q&A

Deborah sends in an email asking us to go into more detail about “the
pruning sheers of revision”.

She writes:

“Thanks for the great show today, some really helpful stuff from both of

“Your talk of changing the past reminded me of a an episode you recorded
a few years ago on this show regarding revising the past with Neville

“I remember at the time the concept sort of blew my mind!

“I wonder if this might be a concept we could explore again?

“Of course you may feel that you already covered this in its entirety at
the time.

“Just a thought! Many thanks and hope you have a splendid day.”

We also field some questions posed by new listeners on Facebook.

Tina writes:

“I had two readings done previously about whether me and my boyfriend
are going to get married.

“They both said yes but that we are kinda different and will have some

“But now my boyfriend wants to break up with me as we have some problems
going on he loves me.

“I love him so much, but he can’t do it anymore.

“He doesn’t want to talk about it, and he already made up his mind with
no going back.

“I really don’t know what I should do.

“I love him so bad that I can’t even imagine myself without him..

“What I’m supposed to do?”

Disha wrote:

“I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years.

“We started dating in 2017.

“I manifested him into my life with the law of attraction.

“I’m sure because he was saying the same things I wanted, and he was
better than I imagined.

“He chased me a lot, but  later I was disloyal to him at times over the
years .

“(Please don’t judge me) 🙁 ..

“I feel regret about my behaviour from the bottom of my heart, and I
have only loved him in these 3 years, no one else..

“This year since the lockdown I could see his interest decreasing and I
became the one chasing and also I became very very negative and also I
recently found out he’s been disloyal too (not double dating) but
flirting around and talking to girls on dating apps .

“After the first year, I don’t know if I manifested this behaviour in
him because he was crazy in love with me, and I know for sure I
attracted him.”

“My affirmations were ‘ loyal, divine love , divine relationship etc etc ‘

I don’t know why is this happening.

“My heart says he’s the one, but I don’t have any trust in him.

“I can’t understand whether my higher self is telling me to give up or
hold on.

“I try to be grateful for him, and I do see some changes good changes,
but again I become negative and think of the disloyalty.

“What if this happens again?

“I’ve learnt my lesson that I should be 100 percent loyal, but I don’t
know what to do about this relationship.

“I feel so stuck, and I’ve been trying to detach.”

“In a way, I feel I attracted this experience to show me that I’m too
attached to him, and I’ve been trying to detach.

“What should I do when I get mixed answers from the universe?

“I know 100 percent that he has loved me, that he’s given me 100
percent, but I don’t know if I should trust him back or give up.

“I’m scared to trust him back and scared to believe 100 percent that
he’s the one, because what if I find something else in his phone?”

Tasfia wrote:

“Hello . I have a question , when I was 4 or 5, I would often watch my
parents fight in front of me .

“I know that if I don’t heal before I get into a relationship, the
patterns will come back, and I will engage in a fight with my partner too.

“So my question is: how to heal from this?

“How can I unlearn the pattern, so that I can have a peaceful relationship?”

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